Men: Choosing Between Family Court and Rabbinic Court in Divorce
A common belief is that men should always file in the Rabbinic court, while women should opt for the Family court—but this is not always true. As someone who has represented both men and women in both courts, I can tell you that the right choice depends on your specific case. Here are key factors […]
Should Reserve Duty Allowances Be Included in Child Support Calculations?
A Family Court in Israel recently ruled in a child support case, with a central issue being whether the reserve duty allowances the father received for his service during war should be considered part of his income for the purpose of calculating child support. The couple, who had been married for about five years before […]
Infidelity in Relationships – Can Trust Be Rebuilt and the Relationship Strengthened?
Infidelity is one of the most challenging crises a relationship can face. While some view infidelity as inevitable, rooted in the belief that humans are not inherently monogamous, I strongly disagree. As a relationship counselor and someone with personal experience in relationships, I believe infidelity is preventable and, in some cases, an opportunity for growth. […]
Overcoming Divorce Challenges in Israel: Take the First Step Toward a Better Life
The practical challenges of divorce in Israel can feel overwhelming. Housing, employment, healthcare, schools—each presents unique complexities, especially for immigrants. These hurdles often become convenient excuses to delay making a change. But ask yourself: Are these truly insurmountable obstacles, or are they fears holding you back? Are these challenges worth sacrificing years of happiness and […]
Practical Paralysis: When Logistics Lead to Limbo
The practical challenges of divorce in Israel can seem overwhelming. Housing, employment, healthcare, schools – each aspect presents its own complexity when viewed through an immigrant lens. These logistical hurdles become convenient excuses to avoid change. But be honest: Are these really insurmountable obstacles, or are they excuses to avoid taking action? Are practical challenges […]
Family Matters: When Distance Complicates Decisions
Being far from your support system makes divorce seem even more daunting. Without family nearby, the prospect of single parenthood in Israel can feel overwhelming. The pressure from relatives abroad who don’t understand the Israeli context, the worry about children’s adjustment—these concerns keep many in unhappy marriages. But ask yourself: Are you teaching your children […]
Financial Fears: The Price of Unhappiness
Money worries keep countless people in unhappy marriages. As an immigrant, you might have complex financial ties spanning multiple countries. The thought of dividing assets, managing international pensions, or maintaining two households in Israel’s expensive housing market can seem insurmountable. But consider this: What’s the real cost of staying? The emotional toll on you and […]
Lost in Translation: When Language Keeps You Trapped
The Israeli legal system can seem like an impenetrable maze, especially in Hebrew. Many English speakers stay in unhappy marriages simply because navigating divorce in a foreign language feels too daunting. The dual court system, the bureaucracy, the fear of misunderstanding crucial legal terms – it all becomes an excuse to maintain the status quo. […]
Cultural & Religious Barriers: Are They Worth Your Happiness?
Living in an unhappy marriage because of what others might think? As an English speaker in Israel, the pressure from your religious and cultural community can feel overwhelming. The whispers in synagogue, the concerned talks from rabbis, the worry about your children’s future shidduchim – these fears keep many in marriages that stopped working long […]
Understanding Shared Parenting (הורות משותפת) in Israel: A New Approach to Post-Divorce Parenting
Understanding Shared Parenting (הורות משותפת) in Israel: A Modern Approach to Post-Divorce Family Life In recent years, Israeli courts have embraced shared parenting (Horut Meshutafet) as a preferred custody arrangement post-divorce. This approach emphasizes maintaining strong, meaningful relationships with both parents, reshaping the traditional dynamics of custody and visitation. What Is Shared Parenting? Shared parenting […]